{"id":9690,"date":"2021-05-19T15:39:59","date_gmt":"2021-05-19T15:39:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/accinsweb8366.wpenginepowered.com\/tledupdates\/?p=9690"},"modified":"2025-06-09T21:31:14","modified_gmt":"2025-06-09T21:31:14","slug":"centering-erasure-talking-about-what-we-dont-talk-about","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/2021\/05\/19\/centering-erasure-talking-about-what-we-dont-talk-about\/","title":{"rendered":"Centering Erasure: Talking About What We Don\u2019t Talk About"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9691\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?resize=300%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Ruth Friede-Cornell\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?resize=1024%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?resize=768%2C768&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?w=1414&amp;ssl=1 1414w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>by Ruth Friede-Cornell, Adjunct Professor of Communication Studies<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I admit that I entered into the Global Gender and Women\u2019s Studies Faculty Learning Community (FLC) with only a vague idea of what I expected to get out of it. I was curious about the guest lecturers and aware of a general desire to challenge myself and improve what I\u2019m offering students. My experience with the FLC certainly met those goals. I enjoyed hearing from experts and I appreciated working with peers. But, if I\u2019m being honest: my favorite thing about my FLC experience was the conversations with students that resulted from it.<\/p>\n<p>When I told the first group of students that I was applying for the FLC they were surprised (and psyched) to hear that such a thing existed. After the FLC began, I was delighted to find that I had a core group of students who routinely stayed after class to ask about what I was learning and share their thoughts. I noticed quickly that there were two major categories of student opinion:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none\">\n<ol>\n<li>They felt like our learning about inequity in the world and particularly here, at ACC was long overdue (often with a little bit of anger toward \u201cwell-meaning white professors who don\u2019t know anything about the real world\u201d, or<\/li>\n<li>They were tired of hearing \u201cthe liberal agenda\u201d and had no interest in hearing more of \u201cthat college BS.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>I realized that neither of these groups would be best served by me (a white, liberal, cis, heterosexual, able-bodied professor) standing at the front of the room telling them \u201chow it is.\u201d So I decided that I\u2019d use my FLC project to try to create an assignment that was:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"list-style-type: none\">\n<ol>\n<li>An open invitation to talk about the stories of those people that academia often \u201cleaves out\u201d for students who already felt aware, and<\/li>\n<li>A challenge to begin thinking about the limited scope of data\/knowledge\/exposure for students who expressed frustration at \u201cbeing forced to regurgitate some ridiculous Feminist nonsense.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>My idea was simple: to create a weekly assignment that required students to come up with an example of a \u201cvoice\u201d we might not have included in the material that week. I wanted to train everyone in the room (myself included) to remember to listen for those who have been silenced and\/or overlooked. I wanted to make thinking beyond the included material required and normalize the idea that we are ALWAYS missing something. It became a weekly assignment: a series of questions, graded for meaningful completion, about \u201cwho we left out\u201d that week. Each week I\u2019d choose a few from the previous week and share some research (if I could find any) about that group. I\u2019d share what answers I had, and we\u2019d ask more questions. That was all. No paper, no research presentation. Just remembering to ASK the question.<\/p>\n<p>My favorite part of this project was watching the evolution of the questions they asked. At the beginning of the semester, they struggled to notice what we\u2019d neglected: \u201cThis week I do not feel we missed out on anyone&#8217;s perspective. This chapter included everyone, wasn&#8217;t about one specific group and you even brought up the fact that the one study was only over straight couples.\u201d And even when they did try many weren\u2019t able to think beyond generalities: \u201cThis week I feel like we really missed all of the non-white cis male perspectives on science and findings.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Toward the end of the semester, students had grown accustomed to this sort of thinking (and felt safer talking about it). \u201c<i>When we talked about Knapp\u2019s model and development of relationships, I wondered how people in India experience this with arrange[d] marriages&#8230;<\/i>\u201d They began to notice their own limitations: \u201c\u2026<i>I thought particularly about East Asian cultures \u2026. And how gross that I don\u2019t really even know which cultures I think I\u2019m talking about but just lump them under \u201cEast Asian\u201d!<\/i>) And they even felt safe making direct \u201caccusations\u201d of my lack \u201c\u2026<i>We talked a lot about the communication of \u201cenvironment\u201d you talked about schools, and restaurants, banks, even highways\u2014but you left out prisons! That means you left out almost 30 million Americans!<\/i>\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cGiving voice to those who have been silent or silenced is paramount in a global society\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1207\/S15327698JFC0304_1\">Turner and West (2003) p. 182<\/a>). I\u2019m grateful to the FLC for giving me exposure to new voices and the impetus to create an assignment that evoked this sort of response:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cRuth! After learning about how words can reflect sexism, racism, and heteronormativity I started to see how this occurred in my day-to-day life\u2026 Now I feel hungry to find ways to do something about this kind of language! It feels so ingrained in our culture now and I&#8217;m wondering how we could reduce it. Do you have more resources for me? \ud83e\udd14\ud83d\udcad\ud83d\udcab\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Resources<\/strong>:<\/p>\n<p>Feminist Theory in Communication, Lisa Cuklanz, 03 March 2016 <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/full\/10.1002\/9781118766804.wbiect157\">https:\/\/doi.org\/10.1002\/9781118766804.wbiect157<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>by Ruth Friede-Cornell, Adjunct Professor of Communication Studies I admit that I entered into the Global Gender and Women\u2019s Studies Faculty Learning Community (FLC) with only a vague idea of what I expected to get out of it. I was curious about the guest lecturers and aware of a general desire to challenge myself and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":9691,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[170,146],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-global-faculty-learning-community","category-written-by-faculty"],"acf":{"carousel_content":false},"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/6\/2021\/05\/Ruth-Friede-Cornell-smaller.jpg?fit=1414%2C1414&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9690\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9691"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/instruction.austincc.edu\/tledupdates\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}